Today is my birthday. A day that should be filled with joy, love and good things from everyone around. But the reality is not as expected, because I am feeling very sad when no one remembers and sends me birthday wishes.
Today is my birthday
Today is my birthday , a day that marks another year in my life. Every year that passes, I have the opportunity to look back at the journey I have traveled, the memories I have experienced and the dreams that remain unfulfilled. Birthdays are not simply a day to mark age but also an occasion for us to reflect on ourselves, on life and on what we have achieved.
When I was a child, birthdays were always a big deal. I remember birthday parties with friends, colorful cakes, and surprise gifts from loved ones. In my mind, every birthday was associated with laughter, joy, and love. However, as time went on, these things seemed to become rarer.
My birthday is also an opportunity for me to express my gratitude to all those who have accompanied me throughout the past year. The memorable moments, the people who have been with me through the difficult times, all create a big picture of the life I am living. Today, I want to emphasize that birthdays are not only for receiving gifts and wishes, but also for me to send messages of love and gratitude.
Meaning of birthday
Birthdays are more than just a celebration of age. They are an important occasion for us to re-evaluate ourselves, to look back at our achievements and failures of the past year. They are also an opportunity for us to set goals for the future. Birthdays give me a sense of rebirth, as if a new chapter in my life is opening.
Besides, birthdays are also a time to strengthen relationships. We often want to share the joy of this special day with family, friends and loved ones. This not only helps to build memorable memories but also strengthens the feelings between people.
Birthday mood
Although birthdays bring many good meanings, not all of us are happy on this day. Sometimes, feelings of loneliness and emptiness creep into our minds, making birthdays a painful experience. I believe that many people are like me, they feel lonely and emotionally deprived on their birthdays.
When I don’t get attention from others, negative thoughts start to appear. This makes me feel worthless and unloved. I start to feel lonely and disappointed, and sometimes worry that this loneliness will last forever.
But I feel so sad when no one remembers and sends me birthday wishes.
Today is my birthday, but I feel really sad that no one remembered and wished me a happy birthday. This feeling really bothers me and creates negative thoughts in my mind. Maybe none of my friends or family remember this day, or maybe they are too busy with their own lives.
Loneliness on Birthday
Loneliness is a terrible feeling, especially on a day like your birthday. Although there may be many people around you, if no one cares about you, the feeling of loneliness becomes even more obvious. When I turn on my phone and see no messages of congratulations, my heart is broken. At this moment, I can’t help but compare myself to others, who have bustling birthday parties, crowded with friends and full of loving wishes.
In fact, these negative thoughts not only affect my mood today but also haunt me for the next few days. I wonder if I am living a meaningless life? Do people really value me?
The forgetting of loved ones
Perhaps the most painful thing is when the people closest to me forget my birthday. I used to hope that at least one close friend or family member would remember and send a greeting. But when that didn’t happen, I started to feel like I was no longer important in their lives.
I felt like I was being abandoned, like no one cared about what I was going through. The beautiful memories of the past began to fade away, and my mood became heavier and heavier. I wondered if I had done something wrong, or if it was just the normal oblivion of life.
Looking for comfort
When I was at rock bottom, I found a way to comfort myself. I decided to do things that I enjoyed, even if there was no one around. I spent time watching movies, reading books, or simply taking a walk alone. Although these activities cannot replace the care from others, at least they helped me find some joy in myself.
Also, I try to remind myself that not everyone can remember other people’s birthdays. Busy lives can make people lose focus and forget the little things. I also need to learn to love myself more, without depending on validation from others.
Conclude
Birthday, a day that holds many meanings, both happy and sad. Today is my birthday , but the feeling of loneliness and sadness when no one remembers makes this special day gloomy. I understand that not everyone can remember my birthday, and that does not mean I am not important.
However, I will continue to live, continue to love and wait for good things to come. Hopefully, in the future, I will be able to celebrate my birthday with my loved ones, who will never forget to send me the most meaningful wishes.
